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Your biggest block isn't fear of rejection...
Yo!
How many times have you seen her, felt the excitement…and then looked away when she noticed you?
Because if she saw how excited you were, you would’ve seemed desperate
or maybe worse
as a creep.
A few you say?
So let me ask you another question.
What if your problem isn't fear of rejection, but the fear of being seen?
Read that again.
Because the moments when you actually did speak up and she said no felt better than when you didn’t go for it.
And I get it, because your conditioning has told you that showing your desire is bad.
That desire is something you should keep to yourself.
So when you like her, and you have an idea to let her know, your stomach twists, body freezes and mind goes blank.
She cannot know!
Your heart wants to move.
Your body shuts down.
That’s not you speaking.
It’s your shame.
You want to express yourself, while your shame wants to hide.
You want to become the best version of yourself, while your shame wants to be comfortable.
You want to say hi, while your shame cannot stand the light.
This can be hard to do by yourself because the very nature of shame is to avoid and hide, and unless you’re incredibly self-aware (which is challenging in triggering moments) the natural reaction is to do what you always did.
Hide.
Now, on the other hand, if you have someone with you.
Someone who already went through that process of dealing with this painful experience of opening up and showing yourself to a woman.
Someone who could call you out when you’re hiding, help you notice your pattens and integrate the shame so that the next moment it arises, you’re ready.
You respond instead of react.
And you let her know that you like her.
That’s how a connection is built.
Compared to pick-up lines and confidence hacks that only push down the shame even more…
This work is different.
This is about integrating it — so that every time you speak to her,
you’re not escaping yourself...
You’re coming home to yourself.
Every approach becomes your dojo.
Your training ground.
Your transformation.
And that’s what we are doing for the Bootcamp 2.0 in Vienna.
Bootcamp 2.0 – Vienna | Aug 22–24
✅ 3 students
✅ 2 coaches
✅ 1 weekend that changes everything
You’ll break the hiding habit — not by force, but by presence.
We’ll walk with you through the shame, not around it.
And after the weekend? You’re not left on your own.
You’ll get 14 days of integration + accountability to lock in your new baseline.
There is ONE spot left.
✉️ Reply “BOOTCAMP” to step into this.
If you’ve been waiting for a sign — this is it.
All the best,
Edin