You say you want to feel enough

Hey man,

I just shot a reel walking home about what the worst thing that can happen if you ask a girl out, and I was thinking of you.

Because when I talk with you, you tell me that you want to feel worthy and like you’re not broken in some way.

Yet, when an opportunity arises

say approach a girl

or share your emotions with someone you know

you hold back.

You’re saying you want one thing, but acting like the other.

Years ago, when I was still figuring it out with women

I’m sitting on the bus.

I’m on the way home from a weekend spa where I did therapy using MDMA
(check out this new video btw for more information on that)

and as I’m looking out the window

thinking about if Marie is going to text me back

I realize I’ve been trying to figure it out with women for years.

I’ve been on countless dates, dated beautiful women

yet I’m still trying to be enough for a text back from Marie.

And that’s when I decide.

 I’m no longer trying to figure it out with women.

Yes, I can get better game by increasing my awareness on social cues, become even more charming and all that…but fundamentally I’m good with women already.

So on that bus ride, something shifted.

I went from trying to be good enough to deciding I was good enough.

Now, you’ve been saying for years that you want to feel good enough.

Well, if you’re serious about it, then start acting like it.

Your brain can not hold two opposites ideas at the same time, it needs to choose.

And you already know what you want.

I know it can feel hard, because you’ve been telling yourself the same story for years.

Well, man.

It’s time to change that story.

And it starts now.

I’ll leave you with this (if you’re serious about it)

What is one action you could take within the next 24 hours, which would prove to yourself that you’re good enough?

Feel free to share it for accountability.

Stay empowered,

Edin