You say you want momentum

Hey man,

You say you want it.

Confidence. Girls. Momentum.

But when it’s time to act — you freeze.

This message might trigger you.

Good.

Because for years you have been seeing how taking action consistently builds momentum and how much easier it is to approach, attract and date girls when you do.

But still, despite all this detrimental evidence, you seem to fall out.

For example

You walk out the door, you see the girl, but suddenly, instead of actually going for it, you decide to wait.

“I just left the house” you said

then, turning the corner

Another one

“Ouh, yeah I missed that one”

So you continue walking and a perfectly fine girl walks by, but you say “Ah, she is not exactly my type”

then before you know it - your type walks by, but you feel too afraid.

And… that's it - you’re stuck.

I’m not saying this to push you down, because knowing how low you can go
(I go there too),

you’re already doing a fantastic job yourself (like I did)

Because each missed opportunity chips away at your self-trust.

And unless you know how to catch yourself —

You fall.
Back into that hole of shame, guilt, and regret.

Is that what you want for yourself?

But, you might say, there will come another day

and yes indeed, after going to bed, sleeping, maybe doing something else, your mood goes up and you feel ready again

and this is a great opportunity to build stairs instead.

Unless you get comfortable with growth —
With the height that comes from showing up —
You’ll keep jumping back into the hole.

Because it’s comfortable.

Painful, but comfortable.

And your mind prefers pain and comfort over pleasure and discomfort.

But you, my friend, are not your mind.

You’re something more.

Your mind is a tool, and unless you start using it, it’s going to keep using you.

Around and around until you become old, grey and filled with regrets.

You don’t want that

I don’t want that

The women in our lives don’t want that.

So, what can you do?

You decide.

Because if you’re done half-assing

Half-committing

And you’ve wasted enough time and energy on staying where you are

If you’re ready to move forward, upwards and experience new heights

Meet new girls, master your self-talk and create that life where every night you come home

you look into the mirror, smile, proudly, and say to yourself

“You fucking did it”

“You stood up for yourself”

“You went all in and did what you wanted - I’m so proud of you”

Then

Then I invite you to join my 1:1 coaching program which opens up in August.

There won’t be any pickup lines, surface level confidence hacks or online dating app modification.

What there will be though is

• A new loving way of talking with yourself

• Walking out your door with full presence, authentic confidence and that sparkle in your eye which makes girls interested in you

• A practice which takes those missed opportunities into personal growth

• A community of men, supporting and keeping you accountable (yes, we have group calls too)

• And maybe most interestingly, a man who is walking the path with you not like your boss at work, but a leader who is out there and doing the same things as you are (yes, that’s me)

Then, I have something for you

I’m opening 2–3 spots for my 1:1 coaching program in August.
You’ve seen how fast the Bootcamp filled up.
If you want one of the spots — and you’re done waiting —
Message me “MOMENTUM.”

We’ll talk.
If we’re aligned, I’ll get you locked in before the invite goes public this weekend.

All the best and remember,

it’s all up to you.

Edin