You are a creep for desiring her

Hey man,

I’m sure this title triggered you because I felt a little triggered writing it

as I know it’s a big problem for you.

Seeing a girl on the street and thinking that you would be harassing her if you went up to her and showed your desire.

That you would be a creep

And yeah, you would

but only because you’re thinking so.

Are you with me?

I was 20.

A few months earlier, I started going out to pick up girls and take them home.

All those years I had been spending watching porn/girls pictures online, wishing it was me, was now going to become a reality.

The first book I read about pickup was The Game,

and from it, I thought I had to take girls from A1 to B2 to C3 before taking them home.

You know what I mean.

I thought that I could not express my desire and intention, but had to do something, like go through this maze before I could take her home.

Oh boy, I was wrong.

I came across this guy, Liam, who already worked as a seduction coach.

For some reason, he added me on Facebook, and we started chatting. I thought it was awesome, because I had watched him on YouTube, and now we were sharing experiences.

That’s when he challenged me.

I asked how to get a girl home from the club, and he told me to just tell her

“Let’s get out of here”

It was too simple.

I said, no, I have to do something, somehow trick her into coming with me.

That’s when he laid the truth out on me, and from that moment I have not looked back.

“She knows what you want, and you playing “the game” is at best cute and at worst pathetic.”

It shattered my belief, and the next time I went out I was making out with a girl and then asked her

“Shall we get out of here?”

She knew exactly what I meant, and came home with me!

Now, the reason you are a creep for desiring her is that you are holding onto the same thing that held me back from being forward about my intention.

Your belief

This came from your past when you were told by your mother/sister that approaching women and showing your desire is creepy and that she doesn’t like it.

What you would like to do is reframe that into a belief that serves you, like
“It’s natural for me to feel this desire, and I can express it respectfully”

which could look like you going up to an attractive girl and telling her what attracted you to her.

No pickup lines.

No mask.

Just raw authenticity.

And if you do that, you’ll have that same breakthrough experience I had that night, 10 years ago.

Your guy,

Edin