Why most guys fail with girls

Hey man,

I’m always happy to see you here.

Today, let’s talk about something every guy struggles with at some point—going from not approaching at all (or getting rejected when he does) to actually getting numbers and dates.

Let me introduce you to M.

M is a driven guy. He’s the best developer in his company, someone who always goes the extra mile. Yet, for the longest time, his dating life was dead.

And he’s not alone. Most guys out there aren’t getting the dating life they want.

They try everything—bootcamps, YouTube videos, learning “what to say.” But at the end of the day, nothing really changes.

I get it. I used to do the same thing.

But here’s the problem—all of this only gives you performance-based confidence.

If a girl gives you a good response, you feel great. But if she doesn’t? You spiral.

And once you're in that downward spiral, every new opportunity slips through your fingers… because you’re stuck in your head.

By the end of the night, you just want to sleep it off and try again tomorrow.

Again, I get it.

But there’s a better way.

So what happened with M?

Last week, he started cold approaching with a completely different mindset—one where he was happy if things went well, but if they didn’t? He was still fine.

This is still something we’re working on, but he’s getting there.

While other guys are scrolling Instagram, looking at girls they wish they could talk to…

He’s out there meeting them.

So what changed?

It’s called The Raw Authenticity Formula.

And here’s the crazy part…

It actually has nothing to do with dating. But at the same time, it has everything to do with dating.

Let me explain…

We talked about performance-based confidence, where you’re only confident if you get her validation.

THIS IS THE OLD WAY.

And guess what? Girls hate it.

Because it’s needy as f*.**

Instead, The Raw Authenticity Formula rewires the way you see fear, attraction, and confidence—so you naturally lead in all areas of your life.

Now? You do what you want. Not because you need approval.
But because it’s just who you are.

The Raw Authenticity Formula isn’t about learning more—it’s about removing what isn’t you.

So drop the old dating approach (like it’s hot) and see that your solution has always been in front of you.

Ready to meet some cuties?

Reply with RAW and let’s have a chat about it.

All the best,
Edin