Why I became an Intimacy Coach

Happy 1st of December!

Exactly 1,5 years ago, I quit my safe, well-paying and comfortable job and went full time into being an Intimacy Coach

It’s not easy to say this, because I love to look like everything is always going well, but it’s been quite challenging.

From not having to worry about the income to feeling the pressure to perform just to be able to continue doing what I do - has been the biggest one.

I’m not complaining, I’ve been blessed with the opportunity to work as a coach for my own business.

Never have I experienced so much growth in so little time, and being able to do what I do fulfills me.

All parts of it, the marketing, the sales, the ups and downs.

Especially the coaching has been a moment of gratitude, because if I told my 19 year old self,

or even my 23 year old self,

or heck, even my 27 year old self that I’d be sitting her in Georgia, writing you a letter about why I became an intimacy coach, I’d be filled with joy.

Holding back my authenticity, especially in interactions with girls, because I feared being rejected was the story of my life.

And despite the people telling me “You’re helping guys get dates? That’s kind of surface level stuff”

And though there is a difference between a dating coach and what I do as an Intimacy coach (I’ll tell you more about this next Sunday)

I know how much it sucks to always be the guy who’s alone, who never gets it with girls, and have to feel frustrated, lonely and not enjoy all the kissing and sex that other guys are having.

So that’s what fueled me to invest all this time, energy and money into becoming the best I could with girls.

Having experienced the other side, and also seen why some guys are getting results while others don’t, I know how much faster it’s possible to do so.

Most guys only need a little bit of help, and once they crack it, it’s a motorway of results just waiting for them.

And you might not have known this, but the idea of doing what I do actually came to me through an intense breathwork session.

So yeah, I quit my job and the only thing I knew was that I wanted to help people become more authentic.

I did not know who, or even how, just that I wanted to help them with authenticity because I’ve experienced how powerful it is.

So coming home from my last day of work, I set an intention to figure out what I was going to do for my business, laid down on the bed and did an intensive breathwork session for 1 hour

It boy, it was intense,

but if you’ve ever had a strong intention you know how much you are willing to sacrifice and go through

so as I arose, so did my mission…

“I’m helping brave men have healthy sex with the Raw Authenticity Formula”

so it’s about helping you have healthy sex

you don’t have sex at all? Well, then we’ll solve that first

but to do that, you first want to let me know you’re not feeling brave? well, then we’ll discover your courage

and that’s pretty much the 3 steps in the original plan of the business.

Thanks for reading my letter to you.

All the best,

Edin