Why being authentic attracts girls

Hey man,

have you read “The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle?

Me too, it was the first book on spirituality that I read.

Would you be surprised if I told you that it’s actually a book about pickup?

Well, it’s not exactly that, but it is a powerful way to attract girls.

We can call it — Date with Presence.

And it works in a way where you are gifting her with your presence so that she on the deepest level (spiritually) is drawn to you.

The reason it works is because of your Authentic Confidence, which comes from the belief that you are enough.

I know, we’re sometimes acting outside our authenticity, but you’ve already felt authentic today and if the right girl was around, she would’ve loved it.

How?

By you expressing yourself authentically and speaking your mind, you’re activating the biological triggers for attraction.

Because how did women know which guy to go for in the cavemen times?

1. You say what you think she wants to hear (nice guy, people pleaser) = lower level caveman

2. You say what's on your mind (authentic confidence) = high level caveman

Which one do you think she goes for?

Exactly.

By you being authentic, she can feel that you are the guy that she can safely fall for.

Now, when you’re feeling down, thinking about the future/past and being anxious in a social environment.

What to do?

You do one authentic action where you express yourself despite the fear of embarrassment.

For me, it’s usually putting on a freestyle beat and rapping or hugging a tree. Both of these actions are something which nurtures me, but I feel some type of fear of being judged by others.

Every time I do it with a loving intention where I’m okay with being seen, despite the fear — my mood changes.

And as my mood changes, talking to an attractive girl becomes fun and easy.

Stay authentic,

Edin