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- What if your fear of being seen as a creep
What if your fear of being seen as a creep
is your ticket to an abundant dating life?
Hey man,
I’m short on time (you know, because of the abundant dating life)
haha
but seriously, have you thought about the paradise behind the fear of being seen as a creep or a harasser?
What if, behind all the thoughts that starts like
“She’s likely…”
“I will never…”
“People will…”
are just your mind playing tricks with you?
I’m sure you can remember the last time your mind played you a trick, and you still managed to follow your excitement, take the action and see that it was only an illusion.
How good did that feel?
Fucking amazing right?
Now, we take this courage with us when it comes to your dating life.
For example, this week during a call with a student of mine, we used the
AUUE-Framework™ and went deep into his inner world to find how excited he felt about women and how much he wanted to go up and show them exactly how he feels about her.
The same day, this legend goes straight to a girl and tells her
“Hey. I wanted to meet you”
No excuses, no explanation - just pure intention of who he is and what he wants.
Now, this girl had a boyfriend that she was waiting for - but the fact that she told him that straight away goes to tell that she knew exactly what he meant.
And man… girls are thirsty for this type of bold action, and heck, they deserve it!
Do you see how they are dressing, and how sexy they are?
Are we just going to ignore that, go home and tell ourself we are not good enough to talk with her?
No way man
Nobody, neither you or the girl deserves that.
So - let’s take a step towards that fear and see that it’s just an illusion.
Remember that on the other side, you have the opportunity to go up to any girl, exactly as you are…
…and we both know how attractive you are once you relax and allow your authentic self to shine through.
Let’s have some fun,
Edin