watching dating content

because it’s telling you that you’re not good enough

Hey man,

When I first started out in my journey of meeting beautiful girls

I had no idea about being an alpha male or what that meant.

Still, I had been on a few dates

and had it not been for the shame around my desire

I would have escalated it towards sex.

But I didn’t, so instead I became the friend.

Pretending to be nice and friendly, but actually wanting to get into her panties.

Then, I eventually come across pickup.

I start reading books, doing courses and watching videos.

I thought I’d become better

but actually, I became worse because I was more in my head!

I’d see a girl in the store, try to think of something good to say and before I could, she was gone.

See, meeting girls is simple.

It’s the most natural thing there is, and we don’t need a 500 page manual to do it.

Your grandfather didn’t read The Game.

But he still found a woman, did he not?

And so did his grandfather, and so on…

What actually helps is to remove that which is between you and the girl.

• The fear of being rejected

• The shame of her seeing you wanting her

• The guilt of being a man with desires

and as you do, approaching a girl feels more natural.

I recorded a guided meditation for your to integrate the shame, so that it’s grips on you loosen.

Here is a guided meditation (18 minutes) to integrate this shame. 

Think of an early childhood memory where you got shamed (maybe by your parents), sit down comfortably and go along with the meditation.

You’re worthy,

Edin