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Hey man,
Quick one today — my student’s about to meet me, so let’s make this sharp.
Recap Day 4
He approached girls on his commute to work
And again on the way home
Walked away with multiple numbers
Not bad for a Monday, right? Especially since metro rides used to be invisible to him. Now, approaching is automatic.
Insight #1: Why She Might Feel Creeped Out
Picture this:
You spot her, you’re drawn to her beauty
You muster the courage to say hi
But her energy pulls away — she doesn’t seem interested, maybe even creeped out
Here’s the truth:
It’s not your words—it’s your energy.
You’re trying to sound confident, but your energy is screaming the opposite. It’s filtered, shaky, buried under fear of looking vulnerable.
Society says confidence = never show weakness. Bullshit.
True attraction happens when you own your nervousness because you’ve already decided:
“No matter what happens — I’ll handle it.”
That inner safety lets you be real… and lets her feel you.
➡️ Don’t chase connection. Be the space safe enough to have one — starting with yourself.
Insight #2: The Identity Shift That Changed Everything
Here’s what happened next with my student:
He didn’t wait to “feel ready.” He acted from who he wanted to be.
When I asked him:
“Are you the man you say you are?”
He said yes — and boom. He approached another girl on his commute… and got her number immediately.
He’s becoming the man he wants to be — not the guy he feels.
💥 What to Do Now
Sit down today and write: “I am the man who…”
Clear. Bold. True
Then act from that identity — even if your body freaks out.
A small step goes a long way.
Repeat. It rewires your nervous system.
That’s it for today. One energy fix — lifted. One identity question — unlocked.
See you tomorrow for Day 5 (massive potential incoming).
Edin