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- This is where most guys hesitate
This is where most guys hesitate
—and stay stuck.
Hey man,
If you read the email on Sunday and thought, “This sounds like what I need… but I’m not sure if I’m ready” — I get it.
Most guys don’t hesitate because they don’t want change.
They hesitate because shame has taught them not to trust their own readiness.
Here’s the truth:
You won’t feel fully ready.
You’ll feel exposed, uncertain, maybe even guilty for wanting more.
It’s like when approaching a girl, going for the number or kissing her…
there’s often some tension or resistance, but if you wait until the right moment then in most cases you will lose her.
That’s exactly why you need to start.
Not because there is something wrong with you.
But because you're finally tired of hiding.
Whether or not you join me is your call.
But don’t keep waiting for shame to give you permission.
That’s not its job.
– Edin
P.S.
If you’re feeling it now, reply with “I’m ready.”
We’ll talk. Simple as that