This guy got his first friends with benefit within 4 weeks of coaching

Here is how

Edin Zubovic
October 05, 2025

Happy Sunday man,

I’m about to go down to the beach to rest a bit, but first - let’s look at the first 4 weeks and how you could replicate it.

Dan wanted to meet one or more girls to experience casual sex, but felt afraid to approach any of the beautiful women he would see in his day to day.

This felt frustrating because even though he knew that being rejection is not the end of the world, he was not able to do it.

So he got a traditional dating coach.

Initially it worked well, until he faced a big rejection and was afraid everyone would hate him.

His coach told him to push through, but he couldn’t.

His whole nervous system was screaming NO.

There was something within him that was not being seen, and went into hiding.

He was about to give up when he met me, and we started working together.

During our first inner child session, we found this part of himself that was hiding.

Initially, he wanted to push him away, but we did something different.

We met him with compassion, and suddenly something magical happened.

He felt grounded, safe and calm.

Tears ran down his face.

When he opened his eyes, there was a smile that said “I want to speak with girls”

And…just a few weeks later he met a girl and they started having casual sex.

Getting up in the morning after a sweaty night with this girl brought a spike to his confidence.

His colleagues noticed and he began to be more respected at work.

Not only that, but he also went for his real dreams…(more on that in another e-mail).

The reason this worked is because even though he didn’t have much experience with dating, he was already deep into self-development.

Mediating almost every day, working out his body and worked on becoming a better version of himself.

So, generally speaking, he was attractive (without knowing it).

All we did was to remove the pressure he put on himself.

By integrating his inner child, he didn’t feel the need to perform anymore.

He saw the dating process as playful and fun, which removed the “freeze” before approaching.

So all he did was to show up, and let himself be seen by her.

And when he saw that she was attracted, he started to believe it too.

Stay tuned, because there is more to this story.

But for now, that’s it.

Let me leave you with this:

If you had met who you are today, 5 years ago, how would you feel about yourself?

See you later alligator,

Edin