This 1 reason is why girls are avoiding you

Yo, yo player.

I need to pee, brb.

Back

Thanks for your patience.

Lisbon 2023, I’m out and approaching girls with a friend of mine

I’d just finished a masterclass on approaching girls during the day, and it was back when I had just started my Dating company business.

I see a girl and think to myself that she’s cute and I go talk with her

“I have a boyfriend, bye”

Alright, I think.

That happens.

And I go back to my friends.

Then, another girl, with her friend this time

I go up

same response

she’s avoiding me like a good tan is avoiding a redhead.

I know that something is wrong, and my friend asks me what I would tell a student if he had the same problem.

I relax for a moment and that’s when it hits me

I’m actually nervous

Doing the masterclass got me all in my head and I was not being present

Thinking it had to be different than it was, got me resisting the moment, but as I was only in my head I did not notice it.

Suddenly I’m aware and I can hear the environment, feel the heat of the spring evening, and start to kind of enjoy the moment again

That’s when I saw her

A cute brunette, with her friend, across the road

I go up

Feeling nervous, I don’t try to change it but rather play along

Taking my time, slowing down my speech, and basically relaxing into the moment

She loves it

even lets me know that my shyness is cute!

We ended up hanging out that evening and had a wonderful time.

The breakthrough comes when slowing down and realizing that you have not been

present with yourself. If you approach girls when avoiding something in yourself,

then you can be sure that other people will avoid you too.

So the next time it happens.

Sit down

Relax become present

and take…your…time.

All the best,

Edin