There are no secrets to approaching a girl

Hey man,

So glad to see you today.

Because on Sunday I interviewed some beautiful women here in Barcelona from all over the world.

The content will be out soon enough, don’t worry!

But the almost magical thing about it was that I learned what we guys have been looking for.

The “SECRET” to approaching a woman:

Normally, you see a beautiful girl and you don’t approach her.

Nothing fancy here.

You know you “should” have done it, but you just didn’t feel good enough.

That’s the problem.

From all the women I spoke with, there were two things that kept being repeated.

“Be yourself” and “confidence”

Yes of course, you’ve heard this before, but what does it mean?

Well, you know the feeling you have when you want to say something to her, but you believe it wouldn’t be good enough for her?

Well, that’s your problem because you’re trying to be perfect.

She’s just a girl, and probably feels inadequate too (most of us do today).

So if you’re trying to be perfect, you’re not only putting pressure on yourself, but also on her.

Which would ruin the interaction even if you managed to approach.

Since I started seeing women more as human beings and less as objects for me to desire and have sex with,

it’s actually become easier and way more fun to date.

And the beauty about going up to her without pretending is that she gets to stop pretending too.

By me being honest, she is too.

That’s when we both relax.

Connect.

And do the dirty stuff (if we want to:P)

So to leave you with something practical:

The next time you see her, and you think that if you showed up as you are right now it would not be enough, then remember that she’s also going through a lot of shit

and if you can just show up as the guy you are (even if that is shit) then at least you can be two pieces of shit together

you know?

That’s enough shit for today.

Stay empowered brother,

Edin