The real reason you shouldn't approach her

Hey man,

I know what you might be thinking:
“Wait… now Edin’s telling me not to approach?”

Yep.
But not because approaching is wrong.
It’s because why you approach might be the real problem.

Let me ask you something honest:

Why do you want to approach her?

I used to go after girls because deep down, I felt I wasn’t enough.
And I thought, “If I can sleep with enough women… maybe I’ll finally feel good about myself.”

But here’s the truth I had to face:

I wasn’t approaching from desire — I was approaching from guilt.

  • “If I don’t do it, I’m weak.”

  • “If I miss this chance, I’ll regret it forever.”

  • “If I don’t go for the kiss, I’m failing.”

Every time I didn’t take action, I spiraled.
Regret. Guilt. Shame. For months.

And the worst part?

I was not even so interested in many of these girls.
I just thought I had to — or else I was failing.

Sound familiar?

If you're nodding right now, good. That means you're ready for a better way.

✅ The Shift That Changed Everything:

Instead of beating myself up after a “missed opportunity”...
I started doing something radically different:

Compassion.

Sounds soft? It’s not.

It’s the only thing that actually broke the spiral — so I stopped chasing, stopped spiraling, and started feeling proud of how I showed up.

Now?

  • I only approach when I genuinely want to — not out of fear.

  • I feel good even when I walk away.

  • I don’t waste energy overanalyzing every interaction.

  • And ironically… I attract more women than ever before.

That’s the freedom I want for you too.

🎁 Here’s your next step:

I created a 15-minute guided meditation that trains this exact muscle — so you stop beating yourself up and start leading from truth.

It’s the same one my students use to finally feel free from guilt-based action.

Get the meditation here → [LINK]

Practice it.
Let it rewire you.
You’ll know it’s working when you see a beautiful girl and feel peace — not pressure.

To real freedom,
– Edin

PS:
My 1-on-1 coaching is now closed.
If you were considering it, don’t stress — I’ll reopen spots later this year.

Until then, start with the meditation. It’s where everything shifts.