The fear of leading a girl

Brother,

we have so many women in our society.

Don’t they deserve our best?

And I get it, you’re trying your best.

But we both know we can do better.

Last week I was at an event to socialize and connect mostly with cool guys (I’m hanging out with too many females lately)

and there I am, talking with a guy, having a deep conversation where he even shares something he never told anyone else which is cool

but at the same time, there is this girl

and she beautiful

and she keeps looking over, like 3 times

I would love to go over, because when a girl is looking at you like this it means she really wants you to come over

but, I don’t

I tell myself I’ll meet her later (which never happened of course)

and I was triggered after the event, so I sat and dealt with my emotions for a moment (used to take me weeks, but now it was like 20 minutes)

Now I don’t fully regret it, as I’m glad I got to hang out with this guy, but next time I’ll excuse myself for at least a moment and check out if there is a vibe.

My problem was that I was too passive, and I waited for him to end the conversation so that I could go over.

The thing that was missing, was the trait of leadership.

It would’ve looked like “Man, there is this girl keeps looking at me. I’m enjoying our conversation a lot, but I wanna see if there is a connection. If you wanna hangout later, let’s do it - if not we have each others contact details.”

and I’m sure he would’ve understood.

I mean, which guy wouldn’t?

So what held me back?

Fear.

It’s the fear that you feel when you see a girl, but don’t approach.

It’s the fear of leading.

Because when you lead, which means you go first, you set yourself up for potential rejection.

And that’s true.

Rejection stings. For a minute.

Regret on the other hand? I’ve regretted some things for years.

And what about our beautiful women? They deserve our best.

I’ve been spending lots of time lately with not only sexual partners, but female friends and they really want to meet a good guy.

And how they describe him, he’s pretty much like you.

Spiritual, works out and wants something more in his life than going to work and watching Netflix in the evening.

So you’re not so far off as you thought - actually, you’re just an approach away.

Which is funny actually, because on the last bootcamp, my student Mehdi, 30 seconds after leaving the apartment to meet girls

approached a girl

and without giving away too much - we didn’t see him before the next morning.

Heck, here is a 1 minute video of him talking about it.

Pretty cool right?

Well, you’re not so far off from him.

I’m sure you know that if you just got out of your own way and actually approached more girls, you would find someone you actually liked.

And that’s exactly what we do on our live bootcamps.

We get out of our own way, meet women and lead them towards what we want (date, sex, something more).

So as I said earlier, I’m on a mission.

Giving my best to women.

Would you like to join me?

If you’d like to help me by giving our best to our women

by approaching them with great energy

and becoming the best version of ourselves

so that you not only wake up with a smile, feeling energized for the day because you know that you can walk up to a girl and share a connection

but also change the way men and women are relating to each other.

So we can come together in love, and share that with each other, wether that’s a girl you just met or your future wife.

If so, I’d like to invite you the last Barcelona bootcamp of the year.

It happens one months from now.

The last weekend of October, here in..well Barcelona. Summer is still here (today I had a swim in the morning)

I can only take on a few guys, and if you are interested in seeing if this is your next best step then message me on Instagram.

I can’t handle all the women here by myself, so you gotta come down and help me out.

The doors close in 3 days (Friday), so this is your pretty much your last chance to book a call and see if you’re a fit or not.

Otherwise, we’ll run out of time.

Let’s keep becoming our best selves,

Edin