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The 2 only reasons why you have not
approached and invited a girl home.
Hey dude,
you are here again.
Constantly deepening your authenticity and becoming more confident.
Wow.
What a hero you are!
OK, let’s jump into the good stuff.
I’m listening to jazz and am excited to tell you that I’ll share with you the two only reasons why, when you go to the super market, you have not approached and invited a girl home.
That would be cool yeah?
Being able to go up to anyone and be 100% authentic.
So, the first reason you are not doing it is because you feel resistance towards showing her your attraction.
Simple as that.
Then, the second reason you have not invited her home is because of your fear of leading.
If you knew 100% she would say yes, it would be easy, right?
So because you don’t know, and taking this step into the unknown could lead to something “bad”, you don’t risk it
You might even tell yourself that you don’t know what you want.
In this case, I want you to do this through a visualization.
First, imagine yourself going to the store and seeing an attractive girl, going up to her, and then feeling like you don’t know how to take it further.
Then:
1) Observe where you feel the resistance to taking this step
2) Go into this resistance and visualize there is a child (your inner child) who is not feeling safe to express itself
3) Give your inner child the safety and love it needs to express itself
4) Go back to the moment where you are with it
5) Done right, you will feel clear, and it will feel easy to invite her back home
Don’t sleep on it.
You deserve more authenticity in your life
Take care,
Edin