The 2 foundations of dating

Hey man,

Times are changing.

We go online, and get bombarded with all kinds of information.

Buy the new shoes that make you taller or sit in a certain way to attract women by looking more masculine.

Now these things are not bad, but think of them like a girls makeup:

You see her, think she’s hot, and then when she takes it off, she might look completely different.

That’s like when you feel confident with friends, and then when a beautiful girl shows up your charisma goes down the drain.

Suddenly you’re in your head, overthinking every move and the best body language hack can’t save you.

How do you attract her when you start to panic?

One evening I’m out with colleagues and some beautiful girls we met at a summer party in Oslo, Norway.

We are drinking, partying and even got a table on a rooftop (great views of the city center!)

But despite all this, I didn’t feel good.

There was this invisible bubble around me, where everyone else are enjoying themselves while I’m stuck in I’m head.

That was until the girl next to me

(whom I found incredibly beautiful, but did not feel like I had anything good to say)

asked me how I was.

This changed everything.

You know the moment when someone asks you how you’re doing and you just wanna say “Yeah, I’m good”, even when you’re not?

That’s what I had done all evening.

I knew that if I would tell her how I really felt, she would think I’m weak and a loser, and end up with one of the other guys.

But I just couldn’t hold back.

I gave up and told her that I didn’t feel good.

There was a moment of silence.

It was like a lost 20 kgs of my back.

My shoulders relaxed.

I look at her.

Her faced changed.

She’s not just a hot girl anymore, but someone I’m connecting with.

She tells me

“I know exactly how you feel”

We connect on such a deep level that during the interaction she let’s me know that she wants to be with me tonight.

She is to this day, one of the hottest girls I went home with, but the real win here was that I was able to be honest and real

to stand up for myself

and the fact that she actually wanted me more was crazy, almost magical.

This was amazing indeed, but it was more like a lucky accident.

How can you replicate it?

Since then, I’ve had multiple of these experiences happen and the common factor is when I get to the point of giving up chasing her.

I let go of the prize.

And I show my real self.

This is not easy, and I’m still working on this everyday, but I’ve created a system now that works as the foundation for this to happen on a consistent basis.

I wanna show you what I got, and because you’re a member of my e-mail list you can get it for free.

I’ll be teaching it next Sunday (15/3) on an online workshop.

It’s about the 2 foundations of dating and social confidence.

The first pillar is the Internal Wingman, where we turn your self-attack into self-love. By doing so, you find the starting point for your self-confidence and your natural charisma is unlocked.

The second pillar is the babystep. You’ll learn how to transform the intensity of your anxiety to approach into a more peaceful state. Then you’ll take a small enough step that does not bring you to your panic zone.

If you wanna join us (for free) then reply with FOUNDATIONS and I’ll send you the invite.

Stay compassionate,

Edin