She became interested

Happy f*cking Friday, champ!

My day’s packed—but I’m grateful for this moment where you and I can sit down and talk.

Last night, something interesting happened.
I met a girl. She was into inner work, so we vibed right away.

At one point, I asked for her number.
She hesitated—grimaced even.
And in the past, that would’ve triggered me.

I’d think:
"Sht, what did I do wrong?"*
"Maybe I should try harder, crack another joke, show her why I’m worth it."

But instead, I looked her in the eye and said:

“If you’re not interested, that’s fine. I don’t want to take your number, get my hopes up, and then nothing.”
“If you like me—cool. If not—I genuinely don’t care.”

And then I added something I didn’t plan:
“I know I’m awesome.”

You could feel the energy shift.
She smiled.
And said: “That’s good.”

Here’s the key: It wasn’t about her.

For the first time, I wasn’t saying that to get a reaction.
I wasn’t seeking validation.
I actually felt it.

I knew I was awesome. No need for approval.
That? Felt like a superpower.

Because let’s be real—
We’ve all felt that sting when a girl says no, and you feel like you’re not enough.
I’ve been there.
Many, many times.

But here's the truth most guys miss:
It’s never about the girl.

Why Chasing Always Fails (And How to Break the Loop)

When you’re chasing, you’re telling yourself:
“I need her to feel good about myself.”

Two things happen:
1. You push her away. (Because chasing only works if someone’s running.)
2. You’re reinforcing the belief that without her, you’re not enough.

What’s the next “logical” step?

• Try harder.

• Approach more.

• Be funnier, more confident.

• Sign up for another bootcamp, another dating hack.

Result?
You're trapped in the loop.
And no matter how much you do… it’s never enough.

The Real Shift = Stop Chasing, Start Attracting

But what if, instead of chasing, you shifted focus inward?

Here’s what happens:
1. You relax.
2. You start liking yourself—without needing her to prove anything.
3. Because you’re relaxed, she relaxes. And attraction happens naturally.

No tactics.
No pushing.
Just breaking free of the old game.

That’s what we do inside Raw Authenticity.

It’s not about forcing confidence.
It’s about rewiring how you relate to yourself—
So you stop chasing, and start leading.

Inner work + Action = Confidence that doesn’t shake.
Attraction that isn’t dependent on outcome.

Want to stop looping and start attracting?
Reply to this email.
I’ll reply back personally and show you how we do it.

No scripts. No tactics. Just real transformation.

All the best,
Edin