Overcome overthinking, build momentum

Hey man,

when you leave your house and see the girl on the street

but you don’t approach

and then start regretting it.

It’s overcomeable.

Here’s how I do it.

I was doing my yoga out in the park, and as I’m finishing up I see this beautiful girl coming my way.

“Wow” I think to myself

She’s coming closer

In the past I’d start stressing with what to say

What is the right line?

The right move

This time, I don’t

I smile, wave to her so she takes her airpods out and I tell her

“I just finished my yoga, and then I saw you and thought wow"

She, smile, laughs and we continue talking

Easy, right?

Yes, but it wasn’t always like this.

See, the overthinking you feel when you see her isn’t just approach anxiety

it’s a deep rooted shame, a belief that says “I’m not good enough”

a guilt for even wanting her, and a fear…

that if you showed who you really are - you would be judged, misunderstood and rejected.

That’s why you get stuck in the cycle of:

Guilt about desire → Hesitation → No action → Self-attack → Lower confidence → Repeat.

The process I’m teaching gives you the exact steps to

• Feel safe in your body.

• Show desire without apology.

• Take action — even when you’re nervous.

• Build real social momentum.

• Stop overthinking and start expressing.

And you stop abandoning yourself every time a beautiful girl walks by.

You start to trust your desire instead of shaming it.

So you feel whole, present and like you deserve that which you want.

Like you finally belong, not as an outsider, but as a grounded man.

You stop chasing validation, and start radiating authenticity.

And from that place, attraction becomes natural.

It’s completely different than how you’re used to

• “Just try harder.”

• “Fake it ‘til you make it.”

• “Wait for the perfect moment.”

• “Be nice, don’t make her uncomfortable.”

Because all of these just worsen the situation by deepening the wound

→ You perform
→ People please
→ Hide your real self
→ Get stuck, or burn out

With the Inside-Out approach I’m teaching, you start from presence, not performance.

You’re leading with truth, not pretending.

You act from integrity, not insecurity.

And you become the man who doesn’t need tricks, because you are open and she can feel you.

This process is faster and easier than other processes because you stop fighting yourself.

Right now you’re burning energy by overthinking:

“What if she thinks I’m too much?”
“How do I look?”
“What’s the perfect opener?”

And my process removes this mental war, and brings you back into your body.

So you feel relaxed, curious and playful.

And because you’re not battling shame, you move faster with less resistance.

Each approach becomes real confidence.

Each moment becomes an opportunity.

And because you’re going from the inside-out, you stop needing results.

That’s when girls start responding.

My 1:1 coaching is still closed, but if you’re feeling the pull to come out of hiding and show all of us the real you, then reply with READY and we’ll have a chat about getting you a spot on the waiting list.

See you later hermano,

Edin