One way to have her like and respect you

Hey man,

How did yesterday go, did you talk with anyone?

I’m sitting here in a park, leaned against a tree after finishing a morning run.

Yesterday we experienced a couple insights and I’d like to share one with you.

Because once you get it, she will both respect and like you more.

Have you observed yourself talking with someone you didn’t want to talk with anymore, but you didn’t dare to leave?

How about not talking with someone because you’re afraid to bother them?

If so, you’re not only stopping yourself from getting laid with girls you totally could have.

But your value is going down every time you hold yourself back.

Instead, by realizing what I’m about to share, you’ll increase your value, confidence and her attraction for you every time you choose yourself over that fear.

Because what is that fear? It’s fear of making her uncomfortable. Which is a discuise because it’s actually fear of you feeling uncomfortable.

But you have to choose

1. The discomfort of saying no to something you don’t want and yes to what you do want.

2. Never getting the girls or life you are actually very capable of

If you choose 2, stop reading.

If you choose 1, here is what you do:

The secret is that you’re seeking her validation, and that’s why you need her not to dislike you.

And when you give yourself that validation you’re seeking from her, you’re less dependent on her and it becomes easier.

Still uncomfortable, but much easier.

Start by becoming aware of when it happens - and decide what a small step forward would be, and the next time it happens again, you know what to do.

Now I’ll go back home and get ready for more coaching!

see you tomorrow,

Edin