The 2 things every guy needs

Yo man,

Let me give it to you straight.

There are only two things you need to understand to become the kind of man who naturally attracts women:

1. You need to be ready to roll.
2. You need to put yourself out there.

Let’s talk about the first one—because it’s where most guys fall short.

You ever had one of those moments where you’re with a girl, maybe even on a date… and the moment to lead, to flirt, to go for it is right there—

But you freeze?

You second-guess yourself.
Overthink it.
And then let the moment pass.

And later that night, you lie in bed wishing you'd done it differently.

That’s not a strategy problem. It’s self-doubt.

The crazy thing?
You already have what most dating coaches tell you to build:
You work out. You meditate. You’ve got a good job. You read. You reflect.

You’re not lazy.
You’re not broken.
You’re just stuck in a loop of trying to “do more” instead of doing the right thing.

Because the right thing isn’t more tactics.
It’s removing the noise that’s keeping you from acting on what you already know you want.

Like when you see a girl and you don’t approach.
It’s not that you don’t know what to say.

It’s that you don’t trust yourself.

So how do you fix that?

Not with more force.

Not with another script.

But by meeting the part of you that’s afraid—with presence.
You stop trying to crush the fear, and instead make it feel safe.

When you do that, something shifts:
You relax.
You stop proving.
And your expression becomes real.

Now, approaching that girl doesn’t feel like pressure—it feels like play.

A game of discovery.

Who am I in this moment?
What do I want?

That’s the path.

And the funny thing is—
That’s when girls start to notice you.
Because you’re not chasing anymore.
You’re just being.

That’s real confidence.
And it feels like freedom.

Now for part two:
Yes, you still have to put yourself out there.

But when you’re no longer performing—
And you’re actually grounded in who you are—
The opportunities come to you.

You just have to be available for them.

All the best,
Edin

P.S.
If this hit something in you—and you’re done trying to perform for girls just to feel worthy—

Then we should talk.

I’ve got a 1:1 coaching spot open for the right guy.
In it, we’ll:

✔️ Rewire your relationship with desire
✔️ Build grounded, unshakeable confidence
✔️ And get you expressing who you really are—without fear

If that’s you,

Check out my offer here:

or just

reply with “1:1” and I’ll send the details.

Let’s go