I approached a girl and got rejected

Hey brother,

I’m tired, but before closing my PC to relax for the evening, I want to share this story with you.

Because if you understand what I’m about to tell you, and if you integrate the lesson from it, you might have yourself a date this weekend.

And who knows

maybe she becomes the girl you end up in a relationship with.

I’ve decided to go out and approach a girl, asking her to join me for a video that I share on my story.

You know, to be showing the people following me how easy it can be to approach an attractive girl.

To inspire and of course, to show off… you know, marketing.

So I leave my house and as I do, I’m feeling both excited and nervous.

A bit fearful actually.

The fear of being rejected, of having her say no. You know what I’m talking about yes?

That feelings stings.

The sun is almost setting, and it’s getting frisky.

A brunette is sitting on a bench, and I can feel that I find her attractive.

Despite the fear I decide to go up to her, and I tell myself it’s ok to feel it. This is key, because hiding the fear and nervousness is hurting you more than being ok with it.

I say hi, sit down, and we chat. She is friendly.

Instead of telling her exactly what I want (record a video), I chat for a while, and by the moment I ask her about it, she says she doesn’t feel in the mood.

We say goodbye and I continue my journey.

A part of me felt OK with having tried, you know?

The comfort zone of at least tried… but, do I want to try or do I want to do?

I want to do

So I continue, decide to use the bathroom at the market place,

and here is where the magic happens.

I’m about to walk out from the building when a hot blonde walks in.

This time, I go very direct

“Hey, you are pretty, and I would like to record a story where I inspire guys to express their desires authentically”

She blushes, smiles and is in!

The result is great, and she even talks to the camera and inspires the guys too!

We hug goodbye, and I can notice that she wants to continue our conversation.

I’m in a relationship, so I let her go.

Did you notice the difference between the interactions?

The first one, which most guys do, is they are holding back their desire. The result? Being timid, shy and fearful.

The second, speaking up exactly what is on your mind, even if you think she will judge you for it. The result? Respect and exactly what you want.

I’m not saying it works every time, but you can be sure that when you walk up to a few girls, being direct about your intention, and not needing her to say yes, that you will get a lot of yes’es.

A student who has been integrating this has had two instant dates on our last two sessions where he’s been out approaching.

The last one was with a tall girl (he likes tall girls).

I’m feeling confident I can do the same for you, so if you also want to have a date with a new girl before Christmas, then I invite you to jump on my Christmas offer.

I will share the details over the weekend.

Edin