Most guys don't realize this until it's too late

Hey man,

Today’s Labor Day—and exactly 2 years since I left my job to start this coaching business.

Back then, I’d figured something out:
I’d gone from barely getting dates… to regularly sleeping with girls I was genuinely attracted to.

And I knew if I could do it, I could help other guys too.

But this didn’t happen by accident.
I analyzed every single date—like a scientist studying attraction.

I developed a simple system. And a few days ago, I stumbled on my old notes:
50+ dates, documented.
I plugged them into ChatGPT… and what I got back? Honestly, blew me away.

More on that in a second.
First—here’s the system I used (and you can steal it today):

BEFORE THE DATE:

Intention = What direction are you leading it?
→ Sex? Make-out? Leave her excited to see you again?
(Not to force—but to lead toward.)

Focus Goal = What are YOU working on?
→ Going for the kiss? Leading her to a second location? Owning your desire?
(Something you can control.)

Without this? You’ll drift. And when you drift—she leads.
That’s when attraction drops.

AFTER THE DATE:

✅ What did you do well?
(Example: You escalated. You stayed grounded.)

🛠️ What could you improve?
(Example: You hesitated to touch. You held back your desire.)

This is how you grow date-by-date—into the man you already are underneath the hesitation.

Now, here’s what I learned from 50+ dates.

🔥 When I’m clear on what I want—and stand in it—everything flows.
🔥 When I lead and escalate calmly—it becomes both sexy and safe.
🔥 When I give her space to lean in—the spark ignites.

But when I didn’t?

💀 I killed the vibe by overthinking “how to make it happen.”
💀 I waited too long to touch—and the moment passed.
💀 I got too nice, too careful... and lost myself.

It took me 50+ dates to figure this out.
You get it in one email.

If you’re early on this journey—or stuck at the edge of it—remember this:
You don’t need to be perfect.
You just need to be yourself… and stop apologizing for it.

That’s when she feels you.
That’s when attraction becomes real.

All the best,
Edin

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P.S.
If this hit something in you—and you’re done trying to perform for girls just to feel worthy—

Then we should talk.

I’ve got a 1:1 coaching spot open for the right guy.
In it, we’ll:

✔️ Rewire your relationship with desire
✔️ Build grounded, unshakeable confidence
✔️ And get you expressing who you really are—without fear

If that’s you,

Check out my offer here:

or just

reply with “1:1” and I’ll send the details.

Let’s go