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Meeting girls without even trying
(I was avoiding them)
Hey man,
I’ve had girls on my mind for the last 12 years..
As a dating coach, let me be the first one to tell you that this is not healthy
As you don’t focus on anything other than girls and who you’ll meet next
And as man, one of your first priorities should be working on yourself and growing
Anyway, for 21 days, I ran a women's detox
First day, failed, turns out I had a date
Second day, failed, turns out I have another date
Anyhoow, I’m not proud of my failures, but, after a couple of days, we were on a roll
For the next 4-5 days, i didn’t have a single date
Then, on the 6th day, I was at an event, and saw this beautiful woman (and I kept on avoiding her)
But, she didn’t avoid me
Wherever I went, she was following me (not in a weird way, it felt like it just kept happening)
8th day, she comes up and gives me a hug
I ended up going on another date
Did I fail the 21 day detox? Let me know lol
Anyways,
Here’s what i realized
It’s so easy to get girls attracted to you, and it actually becomes hard NOT to get girls wanting to approach you
When you have an identity wired for success:
When you’re fun to be around
When you’re not anxious and stressed
When she can feel safe and happy around you
When your energy radiates in the room
You walk in, they immediately notice you.
Women are emotional beings and naturally attracted to energy
Contrary to men who are logical and only focus on appearances
So, here’s what you can do now
Figure out your WHY as a man, this will be your north star
Forget the dating & pick up lines, focus on your identity, on BECOMING
This will fix your energy, going from needy to driven
Then approach women with this attractive energy
Dating is actually simple.
Focus on yourself and your growth = Women love that
See you later this week,
I might have something for you
Edin