Meeting girls without even trying

(I was avoiding them)

Hey man,

I’ve had girls on my mind for the last 12 years..

As a dating coach, let me be the first one to tell you that this is not healthy

As you don’t focus on anything other than girls and who you’ll meet next

And as man, one of your first priorities should be working on yourself and growing

Anyway, for 21 days, I ran a women's detox

First day, failed, turns out I had a date

Second day, failed, turns out I have another date

Anyhoow, I’m not proud of my failures, but, after a couple of days, we were on a roll

For the next 4-5 days, i didn’t have a single date

Then, on the 6th day, I was at an event, and saw this beautiful woman (and I kept on avoiding her)

But, she didn’t avoid me

Wherever I went, she was following me (not in a weird way, it felt like it just kept happening)

8th day, she comes up and gives me a hug

I ended up going on another date

Did I fail the 21 day detox? Let me know lol

Anyways,

Here’s what i realized

It’s so easy to get girls attracted to you, and it actually becomes hard NOT to get girls wanting to approach you

When you have an identity wired for success:

  • When you’re fun to be around

  • When you’re not anxious and stressed

  • When she can feel safe and happy around you

  • When your energy radiates in the room

You walk in, they immediately notice you.

Women are emotional beings and naturally attracted to energy

Contrary to men who are logical and only focus on appearances

So, here’s what you can do now

  • Figure out your WHY as a man, this will be your north star

  • Forget the dating & pick up lines, focus on your identity, on BECOMING

  • This will fix your energy, going from needy to driven

  • Then approach women with this attractive energy

Dating is actually simple.

Focus on yourself and your growth = Women love that

See you later this week,

I might have something for you

Edin