Maybe she likes me, maybe not

Hey man,

It’s Monday evening—and this weekend I went out and approached a lot of girls.
It was one of my first weekends back in the field since the breakup with my ex.

To be honest, it felt good. I’m getting back into flow.
But at first? Even with all my experience—it wasn’t easy.

I still felt it:

• That tension before walking up

• The sting of rejection

• No reply after a text I thought landed well

Years ago, that would’ve sent me spiraling.
But now? I see it for what it is: just part of the journey.

Yesterday I met someone I really vibed with—
She was beautiful, spiritual, present. The kind of woman I’d love to see again.
But… life’s full right now. I’ve got two other dates coming up, and my cousin’s visiting.

Which means I can’t see her until next week.
And in the past? That would’ve stressed the hell out of me.

Even when I had women in my life—I was still afraid of losing them.

And that’s when I realized:
It’s not about how many women you have.
It’s about the man you are with or without them.

It’s like a man with a lot of money—but living in fear of losing it.
He’s still stuck in scarcity.

Then there’s the man who knows he’s capable, grounded, and full.
Even if he loses money, or a woman, or a moment…
He’s still him.

That’s where I am now.

If she stops replying next week?
I’ll smile, breathe, and move on.
Because whether she’s in my life or not—I’m good.
And that’s the shift.

That’s what we do inside Raw Authenticity.
This isn’t about surface-level confidence or more dating tactics.
It’s about building a foundation that doesn’t crack—whether she says yes, no, or nothing at all.

Because real confidence isn’t proven when things go well.
It’s revealed when they don’t.

Because real confidence isn’t proven when things go well.
It’s revealed when they don’t.

Whether you approach… or freeze.
Whether she stays… or doesn’t.
You’re still enough.

And if you don’t feel that yet—
If rejection still stings a little too deep,
Or you keep performing just to be liked…

Then you don’t need more tricks.
You need to come home to yourself.

That’s what Raw Authenticity is about.

Talk soon,
Edin