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James Bond type confidence
is not built by only approaching girls.
Hey bro!
Just had a power nap followed by a cold shower. Man I feel reborn
That’s a combination that I love, because together they work like magic.
There is another combination which is key for your dating journey, and it’s also one of my principles.
The external work must be balanced with the inner work and vice versa.
Today I saw a reel with a guy who had approached 950 girls in 4 weeks.
The results?
3 first dates
0 sex
I’ll share with you the reason he barely had results, while you will have more results with a percentage of the amount of approaches
We have to acknowledge his effort
950/4=31 approaches every day
That’s some next level effort.
Still, it’s some next level waste of time and energy too.
You’re an active guy and don’t have time for that
and the reason you will have the results he did not is because you will follow this principle
The external work needs to be balanced with the inner work, and vice versa.
You cannot meditate on the top of a mountain and expect to become attractive with girls.
The same goes the other way, it doesn’t matter if you approach 31 girls every day if you’re not sitting down doing the meditation, journaling and introspection to figure out what your obstacle to the results you want are.
Because when you do this the right way, you can let go of the approval seeking and be able to express yourself authentically - and when you do…
you can approach just a few girls and score a date where she goes home with you.
Just like James Bond.
I’ll see you with the Christmas offer tomorrow,
Edin