It's not approach hesitation stopping you

Hey man,

you walk on the street and see a beautiful girl coming your way

perfect right?

But there is a lot of people, so you wait

and wait

until she is gone.

You might even have told yourself you were not sure if she was pretty enough, but deep down you know it’s just an excuse.

The problem was not how she looked, or that you don’t have enough courage or that you are struggling with approach hesitation

you already felt that initial pull towards her.

What’s actually stopping you is you’re waiting for internal certainty before making a move.

There is something within you that’s not 100% sure, and because of that waiting you lose out on talking with her.

It’s the same reason you keep checking around for signs to make sure you’re making the right choice about small things like which way to walk.

See, the problem is that most of the confidence hacks and dating tips is about getting something from the girl, a number, a date, sex, and if you know that you can get it, you feel confident.

But from my experience, that’s the opposite of confidence.

Because real confidence, is being able to stand in our truth and not be shaken by a rejection, someone else’s opinion or even God/Universe punishment/wrath for making the wrong choice.

When this Authentic Confidence is strong, it does not matter how many people are around.

You can go for what you want.

No matter what happens, you can handle it, because you have built that internal trust within you.

That’s when external action, like going up to that beauty and taking her out on a date becomes a weekly happening for you.

The journey starts within and I’ll sharing more about this on Sunday for the workshop.

We will also practice together, so that when you leave you are already a little bit more ahead of where you were before.

If you want in, just reply and I’ll send you the invitation.

Stay grounded,

Edin