Imagine if you could approach

Hey man,

there she is.

Blonde, beautiful and a great body.

You know you like her, but you don’t know what to say.

You try to think of the perfect opener, but when you get it, she’s already gone.

I had this so many times, even after watching YT videos of guys picking up girls and learning their pickup lines I still messed up.

The reason is that I was performing.

I was measuring my success based on getting something (A good reaction, a number, date) and because my success was based on something I could not control - I hesitated.

Now?

I approach girls when I see them saying whatever is on my mind

No pressure, just presence

The result is then that she mostly responds well because she feels that I’m not there to take, but to give.

Yesterday,

I’m with my friend who is also a coach.

We’re talking about business.

Just as we’re about to cross the road I see this soap bubble thing (that kids play with you know?)

I take it as a symbol of playfulness (so many of these synchronisities lately)

and then this girl shows up who is also about to cross the road

boom! Life gives me an invitation to play

I feel attraction, but my mind says that she’s not my type

I smile, and tell my friend that I’m just going to make her day (this gives me permission to go from performance to presence)

We chat

She’s even cuter than expected

And when we part ways I feel even more confident

See,

choosing to come from a place of presence makes the dating journey fun.

You see a girl, you say what’s on your mind and either it goes well or it does not.

Both ways, you feel more confident because you trusted yourself and went for it.

If you want to practice meeting women from presence in a safe space, so that you can approach every beautiful girl you see,

then reply with “bootcamp” and I’ll send you some details to see if this could be for you.

All the best,

Edin