If you wait for it to be easier

Hey man,

today is my last working day before Christmas (almost, tomorrow I’ll do a little bit). 

A moment ago I was looking out the window and saw how the sun was shining and a part of me wanted to go out and enjoy a walk.

I still had assignments to do so I was thinking that I would do it later

then I finished that, but I also had new assignments so I said I’ll do it later

again I didn’t go in the sun.

When the third task hit I was again tempted to postpone the walk in the sun, but like you read in yesterdays post, this type of procrastination is the same when it comes to approaching beautiful girls. The mind wants to stay comfortable.

So I decided to put everything on pause and go out

(btw it was amazing, I was playing with sticks like Lord of the Rings and attempted to climb a tree)

now I’m back to write you this and looking out…the sun is now gone (winters in Norway are brutal lol).

For every moment I waited, it didn’t get easier, but as soon as I went out I felt joy and played around like a child again.

Sounds fun right?

Waiting for things to get easier, like the weather to get better or for you to become more confident will have you miss the sun. Everyday.

this is the old you

• Waiting for things to get easier is telling yourself you’re not good enough to start.

• It’s the reason why you need to distract yourself until you’re going to sleep at night.

• That’s why, when you want to go up to a girl you actually like, you either reject yourself prematurely or she rejects you (because internally you already rejected yourself)

Does it make sense?

For you to be the new you - feeling safe within yourself and able to successfully date girls you finds attractive

you have to go through the discomfort of starting your journey.

Because by doing that you’ll be telling yourself that you’re good enough. Initially it feels does not feel comfortable.

Not at all.

But.

That’s the reason you were waiting for better times in the first place.

This discomfort is your friend. Let me explain

It is a sign that you’re on the right way.

Because ask yourself this: What is discomfort?

Something that is not comfortable.

And if you want new results, like

Waking up next to an attractive girl. Smiling because you’re feeling safe within yourself. She feels it and comes closer to you. You notice her feeling safe next to you and you start feeling even better about yourself.

then you need to get out of the comfort zone, right?

Like when I went out for the walk in the sun, it didn’t get easier until I decided to do it and did it.

So if you’re taking one thing with you from this post it’s that starting now is the only way you can make it easier in the future.

If you’ve been on the fence of making this step and want a last little push then you’re now informed that today is the last day to join 1DAW Program (1 Date a Week Program).

You still have a few hours to grab the discount as well.

I’ll see you there,

Edin