I was successful on paper

Hey man,

Yesterday, Tom shared his story with me (I believe you will relate):

I’ve been successful at my work. Started my business 23 years ago, and it’s still going decent. Not where I want it to be, but good.

I want want more time freedom, to travel, trade and still earn money.

I’m a good dad, taking care of my daughter and I’ve even competed in natural bodybuilding.

See, on paper, I’m successful, but even one look from a beautiful woman and I crumble.

I’m asking myself what the problem is. I’ve heard women want security so I believe I need to earn more money before I can date.

Or maybe compete in another body building competition.

I don’t think I’m good enough. There is never enough time to do all the things I’m doing so on the weekend I feel burned out.

I’d like to be in a positive & healthy relationship, but I get nervous and self-critical around beautiful women.

I feel stuck.

First of all, I totally get you.

Chasing external success to compensate for internal lack of self-worth is something I know very well.

We’ve been doing that for a long time, and I have the notion that you’re aware that external success MIGHT not give you what you’re looking for…

..but you don’t know where to start.

Let me help.

Here is the cycle you feel stuck in:

Step 1: "I feel I'm not good enough → I overthink."
Step 2: "I try to fix that by achieving more (money, body, trading)."
Step 3: "The more I chase, the more pressure I feel."
Step 4: "I burn out, avoid vulnerability, stay stuck."
Step 5: "Repeat cycle."

The solution?

Deal with the very first step.

By meeting that inner sense of unworthiness with love, presence and compassion, the overthinking goes away.

Instead, there is a sense of peace.

That’s when you start to feel safe within yourself.

And that’s when you realize what the security women are looking for really means.

It’s not money (some women already earn more than men today)

Instead, she wants a man who is comfortable in his own skin.

That’s you once you break that cycle.

To do that, I’m hosting an online workshop where you will learn how to stop fighting yourself and meet women with a real connection.

It happens Sunday 9/11 and spots are limited.

The official launch is not before tomorrow, but because you’re a part of the list you get an opportunity to grab one of the early bird spots.

For more information (and the opportunity to get your spot), message me “worthy” and I’ll send you the details.

It’s time we meet women from a place of authenticity, because when we do…we connect.

Stay empowered,

Edin