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- I used to chase women
I used to chase women
until I learned the hard truth
Hey man,
Do you know how annoying it can be to feel like you don’t deserve a girl?
Annoying is the wrong word
depressive is more fitting
because it’s not just about girls.
The type of girls you attract is just a byproduct of who you are.
And if you want to attract a beautiful woman into your life, you need to change.
And I’m not saying change your hairstyle or shave your armpits (some dating coaches are)
because those are so surface level
they don’t change shit.
If you want to change and become than worthy man you deeply feel that you can be
then you need to change from the inside-out.
I used to chase girls, memorize pickup lines and practice facial expressions in the mirror.
They helped me, but only when things were going well.
When anxiety hit, my confidence dropped and I run out of things to say
I would lose the girl
because I lost myself.
It may sound a bit spiritual,
and it is.
But not on a level where we are chanting and wishing for something to magically appear
no, this is highly pratical.
We regulate our nervous system
and become he master of our mind and emotions.
Because when you do, the mind becomes your wingman
your teamplayer
and you no longer chase a girl.
You attract her,
by just being.
Today I went to workout and started chatting with a beautiful brunette and her Labrador.
I didn’t do anything special, just said what I was thinking
and then told her goodbye while she wanted to continue…
it’s just because it’s become who I am.
And I’m not saying it to brag, but to tell you that I know where you’re at, and that it’s possible.
I’m not special, I’ve just integrated my own Internal Wingman.
It’s only 19 euros
the same as buying a burger.
I’m not saying don’t buy a burger (I’m buying a double one this evening),
but would you rather be able walk up to a girl and attract her effortlessly or eat a burger?
Anyways, if you wanna join us and install it then here is the link.
I look forward to seeing you there,
Edin