I lost my virginity

Good evening gent,

I came home from my evening walk to find out that my Instagram has been suspended.

It’s my primary source of new business at the moment, and believe it or nut, but my first thought was not “Oh no, what shall I do now?

it was “Interesting, is it time to let go of the old and start fresh?”

11 years ago,

I’m chatting on Facebook Messenger with this Australian babe that I met in the line to go into a bar back in Norway.

This is before I learned anything about dating, texting or even sex.

Take in mind, I’ve barely kissed a girl at this point

We’re flirting back and forth — and when I say flirting, I mean she’s talking about her day, and I’m finding ways to sexualize it

Yup, sexualize it

She says

“I’m considering getting a gym membership to start training”

my response?

“We can train in your room, if you know what I mean :P” (yes, I used that emoji)

we go back and forth too many times in my opinion until we setup the date (Hint #1 of texting while dating is to keep it to the absolute minimum and primarily to setup dates)

long story short, we watch a movie at her place and legends say that your guy lasted for a full two minutes.

Anyways, my sexual endurance at the time is not the point — this is:

I didn’t know anything about any techniques, I just decided that I didn’t want to be mocked by my friends for being a virgin anymore and was very forward with what I wanted to happen

and magically enough, it did.

So that’s why I’ve decided to use this suspension as a reminder of why I started this business in the first place:

To show you that you don’t need more knowledge about how to date, but that there is rather something within you that you’re holding back

Authentic Confidence

and when you re-discover this, you’ll have the dating life you’ve thought about for years.

Because imagine with me

Waking up on a Saturday morning and feeling a sense of calm excitement rather than the usual anxiety about the day ahead.

You decide to go for a walk in the park and notice a girl sitting on a bench. Instead of overthinking it, you approach her with a genuine smile and compliment her on her style.

You feel grounded in your body and present in the moment, and the conversation flows effortlessly.

This is why online-dating is not working for you the way that you want, because getting a date is just the byproduct of the actual problem

which is Escapism Syndrome. 

It’s when you avoid saying or doing that which you deep down know would be in your highest excitement.

That’s it for the day

Take care my man,

Edin

PS: I went back on her Facebook and found a picture of her from a few years back and man, we did pretty well back then without any PUA skills