I enjoyed our date

yo sharpshooter

You’re my guy so I’ll share with you that right now I’m writing this e-mail from the hair saloon

Getting curles in my hair,

first time for everything yeah?

Now, if you ever been on a date,

(And if you have, congrats, because going on dates are awesome. meeting a new person which already is exciting, but now she is also cute/hot so there is this attraction)

then you know how much it sucks asking a her out for a second, but she hits you with the let’s be friends text.

You’ve been there

I’ve been there

Most guys have

Now, in order for you to overcome this and not end up in this friendzone and actually have her excited to see you again

Then you need to understand this one concept

sexual tension

What is that?

Once you understand it on a deep level, and you can only do that through direct experience

Then you’ll be able to play with it

And that’s when

• You consistently have sex on the first or second date

• She reaches out to you

• During the date she touches you

This sounds great yeah, but how do you do it?

first, what is sexual tension?

Sexual tension is the energy you feel when it becomes silent and you’re just looking at eachother and saying nothing

It’s this excitement that you likely today interpret as fear, shame or guilt

So you diffuse this by saying or doing something like moving your body or starting to talk a lot

That’s when she knows…

Ah, he’s not one of those guys that girls want to have sex with.

But don’t worry, because you’re now on the journey of becoming one of those guys.

The way you become one of those guys is by

1) Becoming familiar with the sexual tension

2) Relax into it

3) Use it to your benefit

And once you do…you will never get that «let’s be friends again»

Because she will, wether she likes it or not, become turned on

And that’s when you take her home

All the best,

Edin