How to overcome fear of approaching

Hey man,

This week, a student of mine flew to Barcelona to spend a few days with me. Three days later?

He’s going on dates.
He’s had sex.
But more importantly…

He’s no longer afraid to approach.

That’s the real win.

You know that fear. You see a girl. You want to go up—but something locks you down. Your mind floods with excuses. And after the moment passes, the self-attack kicks in:

"Why didn’t I do it?"
"What’s wrong with me?"

It’s a brutal loop.
Let’s break it.

The truth is:
You don’t need more pickup lines.
You don’t need to “push through” the fear.
That just leads to more performance. And performance is what keeps you stuck.

What worked for him—and what works for my students—is a different path.

We slowed down.
We connected with the fear.
We stopped making it the enemy.

He didn’t go up to girls trying to prove something.
He approached with his real desire—and women felt it.

That’s the shift.
From performance… to presence.
From self-attack… to self-trust.

If you’re done with the loop—and you’re ready to feel calm, clear, and confident in front of women—I can help you do that.

Just reply to this email with “Ready”
Or check out the details here [Talk to her].

Either way, I’ll see you around.

— Edin