How to go on a date this weekend

Yo dude, good morning

Just finished listening to Big L’s 98 freestyle. If you’re into rap as well, then give that track a spin.

I’ll be quick with you this morning because I know it’s Saturday and you have stuff you can do that you don’t give yourself time during the week

Like going for a hike, some introspection or just relaxing

and I want to let you know that the girl who works at the cafe or whatever it is, who you enjoy the company of and who it seems like enjoys yours too

is very likely up for a date with you.

The fact is you haven’t asked her out yet and you’re spending a lot of time thinking about it and going back and forth.

Why haven’t you done it?

The problem is that you’re putting up obstacles for yourself, believing that being indifferent to girls is the way, but it’s not.

What you’re referring to is being non-attached to the outcome.

So you still ask her out, but you don’t act like it’s the end of the world if she says no.

Of course, it would suck, so let’s take these two quotes and turn them into your superpower:

1. If you never shoot, you will never score.

2. The way you do one thing, is the way you do everything. 

If you never ask this girl out, it’s highly unlikely you’re asking any girl out.

Now if you ask this girl out, regardless of what she says, you’ve not only increased your confidence,

but you’ve also increased the likelihood of you asking another girl out. 

Because you’re allowing yourself to live in the reality where it’s normal for you to feel intimacy and live in a magical reality from moment to moment

so when you see the opportunity, you take action from that reality.

and then… you’ve just taken your weekend to a whole new level.

Let’s make the best out of it, my man.

Edin