How to approach a girl

Yo, what is up my man

So today’s title, as you see, is very, let’s say up there

How do you approach a girl without any of these?

Honestly, I don’t know

Today I talked with two girls, and initially I felt scared and anxious

and I didn’t think they would like it.

But then, a few minutes later, we’re sharing vulnerable stuff about ourselves.

That’s why I want to let you know on a secret.

Something that’s much more important than how you feel about something.

Because I see you, and I know how much it f….. sucks to hold yourself back.

Maybe you read dating advice, or you just feel like you’re not good enough.

That’s f…. OK!

As you just read, I also didn’t feel worthy of talking with them.

But it doesn’t mean that we don’t go for our desires.

Now, I promised you how to approach her without all of these things, so let me give you something.

How you approach a girl…

is the same way you approach life.

You know?

The way you are now, reading this.

How are you approaching this moment?

Yourself and your feelings?

The moment you start acknowledging your feelings, no matter how ugly or painful they are is also the moment you can relax.

That’s what you’re seeking, right?

And that’s why, I invite you to start, right now, to acknowledge how you’re feeling.

If you’re gonna hide who you are for other people that’s fine, but at least in this moment, open yourself up to how you’re feeling to yourself.

The moment you start to do that and approach life in the same way is also the moment you start to explore real intimacy with someone.

I wanna thank you for your attention and leave you with this:

What if everything that happened, including your feelings, happened for you?

PS: Even my grammar application lives in the old identity, lol

Edin