How I go on dates

Hey man!

hope you’re doing good.

Yes, it’s possible to go on dates without overthinking.

Just remove the overthinking.

But, I have no dates you say?

Yes, you still need to meet girls.

But I’m not meeting girls you say?

Okay, then meet girls.

But, how?

1. See girl

2. Speak with girl

3. ???

4. Date

Yes, it’s the “???” I don’t know about

I see, and you know what, I get it.

I’ve felt this gap too, and thought that by reading about pickup would help me,

but it just kept in preparation mode without taking action.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t read theory, but keep it at a minimal level.

Because that’s where the overthinking comes in, you know?

So if we go back to our 4 step process, then what do you do on number 3?

Simple.

Lead with your authenticity.

Authenticity is to allow what is happening inside of you to be regardless of what is happening outside of you.

That can mean expressing your thoughts and feelings to someone even though that person might judge or reject you.

It’s the ultimate spiritual path in my opinion.

Because you get to experience growth while meeting women.

It can feel uncomfortable, but it’s better than regret or saying stuff you’ve read somewhere that works.

Every time you’re leading with authenticity, you’re saying yes to yourself. No matter the outcome.

And then you’re solving the real problem, which is to stop shaming yourself.

Because when you turn that self-attack into self-love, meeting women becomes fun and easy.

You don’t think, you just see her and speak with her.

There are some advanced mindset ideas around meeting women that I teach to my students, but you don’t need them to go on dates.

Simply lead with authenticity, and you’ll go on dates.

If it doesn’t work, let me know.

Best wishes my man,

Edin