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How I approach a girl
when I feel afraid
Hey man
Quick one today because I’m about to go out and show my friends the city of Barcelona.
There are plently of pretty women out, so we’ll likely talk to some.
Still it can feel fearsome, because what if she rejects you and others see it?
It should not stop you, but still it does.
Over these 13 years I’ve learned a way to know when it’s right to approach her and when it’s not right.
You know when you feel like you should approach a girl?
Well, that’s not when you want to do it. It comes from ego and low vibration guilt
Instead, when you see a girl and you feel the fear because she is so pretty
And then your mind says «I don’t need to do it»
that’s when I know that the best move is to approach her.
It’s as simple as that
Once you start becoming more honest with yourself, and you can admit and acknowledge the fear, then half the battle is done.
To become more honest, I recommend improving your relationship with your inner child. There is so much intuition and energy within yourself that’s becomes available once you do.
When you know fear is in the way, you can choose to be couragous
And when you’re being courageous, you’re always sharing positive energy (google The Map of Consciousness) if you’re not familiar with energy vibrations
And that’s how I know what the best course of action is when I’m feeling afraid.
Take care and stay empowered,
Edin