How Dan went from not approaching

Hey man,

let me ask you a simple question.

Who are you?

And no, I don’t mean in the terms of your spiritual growth (even though I love that)

I mean, that for the last 3 years you’ve been telling yourself that you would like to date a girl you actually like.

But you have not.

Yes, you went on a few dates which is great, but it was mostly with girls you didn’t really like, or when you met a girl you actually liked…she ended up rejecting or ghosting you.

I’m not saying it to bash you, because I know how it is.

I used to go on dates with girls I liked and they would say they were not into me.
One even blamed it on our astrology signs (lol!)

And though I’m single right now, it feels great to know I can go out after writing this e-mail and potentially meet a cute girl I’d like to take out.

Not just me, let me tell you about Dan, who went through something similar…

Week 1
His main challenge was that he froze when wanting to approach women and would self-attack after.

The root cause was a deep inner child wound of not being enough unless he was performing.

Through guidance, emotional release and inner child visualization he felt calmer, less pressure to perform and enjoyed being in public without shame.

He began to meditate in public and started doing small exposure exercises without feeling shame.

Week 2
He still felt anxious around approaching attractive girls, especially when he saw two hot girls - he would see them and think “ I HAVE to act”. This made it feel like work instead of play.

We reframed his neediness with inner-child dialogue and self-love so he stopped shaming himself after missed opportunities.

Now he was able to visualize approaching women instead of feeling anxiety.

Week 3
He wanted to approach, but didn’t know how to express his desire without hiding. Indirect opneners felt cowardly, while the direct one scared him.

We role-played, experienced some deep realizations and practiced presence based communication.

Now he starts to approach! His confidence starts growing.

Week 4
He was afraid of rejection by showing desire because a friend had told him that “that wasn’t the real you”.

We released shame around sexuality, practiced separation of rejection from self-worth and learned how to show intention.

He starts to feel free expressing his desire!

Shortly after, he meets a girl who becomes his first consistent friends with benefits relationship.

Now, we could continue…but this is actually about you.

You’ve already paid the price.

This whole year you’ve gone through moments of missed opportunities and nights of painful regret.

Is next year going to be the year you tell yourself “This will be my year?”

Or will you take action now, so you can go experience the world with a beautiful girl by your side?

Because if overcoming the anxiety, fear and loneliness really is important for you, then you would hire someone to help you with that.

That’s the difference between a man who dates women he wants.

He takes action on that which is important for him.

You’ve already grown successful in other areas of your life.

This is no different.

You could go the next 10 years and solve it.

Or if you want to meet someone before Christmas

and sit there on the Christmas table with a smirk on your face

knowing that in a moment you’ll call your girl

then I wanna invite you.

28-30 of November I’ll be hosting the last bootcamp of the year.

In Oslo, Norway (the city where I really learned how to meet girls during the day).

We’ll also go to the bars and clubs.

You’ll also get a month of 1:1 coaching to integrate your experience.

There will be a limit of 4 guys.

For more information, reply Bootcamp and I’ll send you the details.

Stay empowered,

Edin