Hey man, are you approaching this weekend?

I’m on my way home from boxing, talking with my father on the phone.

Deciding to hang up, I turn a corner and see this girl.

Blonde.

Long legs.

I have to find out how she looks.

I walk towards her.

She’s waiting for the bus, talking on the phone.

I pass her and see her face.

She looks great.

“Hey, pause,

I see you’re on the phone, but tell your friend you will call her back in a minute”.

(Delivered with a smile, and high intention, this works more often than you would expect)

She hangs up.

She has been talking with her father too, what a synchronicity!

I tell her that I saw from behind, liked her legs, and wanted to find out if she was cute too.

As I say it, I feel shame because I’m openly admitting my desire for her body and showing her that I was interested without even seeing her face.

To my excitement (and surprise) she opens up and long story short,

we end up having an intense couple of weeks with amazing sex (including a public one, which I might share sometime later).

The point is, that besides the “call your friend back in a minute” line,

I was saying exactly what was on my mind.

and it’s much better than what you think you need to say!

Go easy, and live authentically my friend,

Edin