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Hey man,
do you ever think you’re lazy?
Like when you catch yourself scrolling YouTube or Instagram after work
and think that you should’ve done something more productive?
But you just need to do it, like no matter what you end up there?
Well, maybe you’re not lazy.
There is a part of you which is seeking your attention.
Your inner child.
But it feels very uncomfortable, so much so that the easiest thing is to distract yourself.
So there you are, scrolling your phone and feeling bad afterwards.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
I used to escape my emotions too.
Smoking weed, playing video games and even having sex just do not feel what I was feeling.
One evening I’m with two friends. One female and one male.
My male friend wants to smoke, but even though I didn’t want to, I can’t say no because I want to please him.
So, we smoke, and afterwards I have an anxiety attack.
I can’t tell them I’m not doing fine because if I told them that I was not OK then I would have to talk about it and I didn’t want to talk about and feel my emotions
so instead of being vulnerable, I say everything is OK.
It’s this weird energy afterwards, and both of them leave.
I start to think they left to hook-up and I felt left out. Jealous in fact, and angry.
I need an escape.
I run out to the balcony and hit the joint, and
ahhh
I feel the relief…
for a moment
and then…
the anxiety is back
stronger
and now I don’t know what to do.
The weed doesn’t work.
I feel this immense uncomfortable feeling which is growing.
I go into my room
squat down on the floor
close my eyes
and I feel so heavy
it’s like something is sitting on me
litterally, I feel like the devil is sitting on my shoulders.
I don’t remember much after at.
Not long after, I stopped smoking and I started to face this discomfort.
Now, I feel better.
When this anxiety hits, I meet it with compassion.
Actually, I’ve had some of the best moments of intimacy with women when anxiety hit. Because it was a moment to share this vulnerable state.
And women love it when the guy is vulnerable.
But only if he’s able to do it from an empowered state, which in my experience is only possible if you are facing the scary shit down there.
Enough about me.
When you face that shit, you are free.
Hesitation because you see a girl? You talk to yourself in a way where you feel calm and able to talk with her
Regret because you didn’t approach? You stay with yourself in compassion
Potentially judgmental situation from others? You turn it around
Nothing is impossible when you start to play together with yourself.
All your life you’ve been avoiding, but now is the chance to integrate your own
Internal Wingman ™.
Next week,
you and me are going to sit down together
with 4 other guys on a live call.
You’re going to learn how to practice your Internal Wingman by meeting your inner child.
It’s going to be uncomfortable.
But it’s nothing compared to living your life avoiding your highest potential.
For 30 minutes we’ll sit together.
And come out of it with potentially a new understanding of who you are.
You’ll also get the step-by-step on how to keep integrating your Internal Wingman™.
You’ll only pay 19€ for the session.
To keep the energy personal, we are capping it at 5 guys.
If you feel the calling to start winging yourself towards success not only in your dating life, but in your work and social life too - then here your chance.
All the best,
Edin