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Here's my go-to move when a girl smiles at me
so I don't freeze up.
Hey man,
You know that moment—when a girl smiles at you… and you freeze?
You replay it later.
You know she was into you.
You could’ve said something.
You should’ve walked up.
But you didn’t.
And when you lie in bed that night, you don’t feel proud.
You feel regret.
So what really happened?
It’s not that you didn’t know what to say.
You’ve watched the YouTube videos.
Heard the lines. Studied the game.
But in the moment?
Your mind goes blank. Your body locks up.
And you just… let her walk away.
Why?
Because it’s not about memory. It’s about your nervous system.
See—when a high-stakes moment hits (like a girl actually showing interest), your body registers threat, not opportunity.
You feel the spark—then the fear.
Your brain doesn’t shut down because you’re dumb.
It shuts down because it thinks you’re in danger.
And no amount of pick-up lines can override that.
Because when you’re frozen, “what to say” is locked away too.
But what if we stopped trying to perform over the fear—
And actually removed it?
What if, instead of overthinking... you just walked up to her?
Not with a perfect line—but from a place of calm, grounded presence.
Imagine how that would feel.
You’d walk home proud.
Not because she said yes.
But because you showed up.
And chances are… she texts you the next day.
So here’s what I’ve got for you:
If you’re done freezing, and tired of going to bed with regret—you don’t need another line.
You need a reset.
I’m taking on 1–2 more guys this month for Raw Authenticity™.
If you want me to look at what’s actually keeping you stuck—and map out how to fix it—
Just reply to this email with “Free.”
I’ll send the details for a short call. No pitch. Just clarity.
If it’s a fit, we’ll move forward. If not—you’ll still walk away knowing what’s next.
This is how it starts.
Talk soon,
Edin