Here is why you self-sabotage after a breakthrough

Hey man,

You know that feeling—you finally had a breakthrough.

You walked up to that cute girl. You said something bold. You actually did the thing you've been avoiding.

And then, a few days later… you're back where you started. Maybe even worse.

Why does this happen?

Because most guys don’t know how to hold their progress.

They push for the next win too fast—and crash.

One of my students inside Raw Authenticity is extremely disciplined. He tracked his progress daily using a simple tool I created. And what we saw over the last two months blew us both away:

After every big win, he would drop.

Not because he was lazy. Not because he wasn’t motivated.
But because his nervous system wasn’t ready.

His conscious mind was like, “Let’s go! More approaches!”
But his body was saying, “Not yet.”

That’s when the old patterns kicked in—distractions, scrolling, self-doubt.

One student told me his last coach just told him to “push through” when this happened.
I don’t believe in that.

You don’t need to force it. You need to integrate it.

Big growth shakes your system. So when you win—pause.

Take a walk.
Eat something good.
Sit in the bath and breathe.

Let the win settle in your body.
That’s what gets you ready for the next one.

Slow and compassionate is faster than quick and forced.

Want to track your progress too?

Here’s how:

• At the end of each day, rate:
  1–10 Authenticity
  1–10 Escapism

• Write a short note on what happened.

Here is a tracker where you can plug & play.

Do that for 7–14 days and patterns will emerge.
And from patterns… come insights.
And from insights… real transformation.

Take care,
Edin
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P.S.
If this hit something in you—and you’re done performing for women just to feel worthy—

Then we should talk.

I’ve got a 1:1 coaching spot open for the right guy.
In it, we’ll:

✔️ Rewire your relationship with desire
✔️ Build grounded, unshakeable confidence
✔️ And get you expressing who you really are—without fear

If that’s you,
Check out my offer here: Talk to her
Or just reply with “1:1” and I’ll send you the details.

Let’s go.