Here is why she rejected you

Hey man,

hope you’re doing well.

I just had a call with a student and want to share with you something deep and valuable

because it’s likely the reason she rejected you.

He is out on the street and approaching some cute girls.

Brave guy, I know.

As he complimented the first girl, she just said no and continued walking.

Talk about a rejection, and because I’ve had that reaction happen too,

I know how much it sucks

but this time was different, because he was up for a breakthrough moment

Sitting down to process what happened, I ask him deep questions about what he wanted from the girl in the first place

What do you think it was? (besides sex of course)

Validation

And I believe you can resonate with that too.

That’s a problem and a big one

Here is why:

Imagine you have a coin and you go up to someone to give it

if the person says no, then you would not care too much right? Their loss

But what if, the only reason you wanted to give the coin was to get €100 back

then you pretend to give, but in reality, you’re giving to get something


You might ask, but what do I do with this part of my that wants validation?

It’s simple

You give it what it wants

but here is the secret sauce

Instead of getting the validation through the girl, you give it to yourself

and you do that by validating your desires, and feelings and taking care of your self-talk.

This way, you become emotionally self-sustained

and that’s not only good for you

it’s also super sexy.

Take care of yourself,

Edin