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- He felt so safe within
He felt so safe within
so she started to trust him (Student story)
Hey man,
I just got out of a group call with Raw Authenticity and I’m so proud.
One of us had a breakthrough moment where he had been doing the inner work, overcoming the resentment he felt for his sister.
It had been sabotaging their relationship for years, but after becoming aware of it and then doing the work — he went back this weekend to see her and the rest of the family.
The old pattern started, and she began to be negative, and instead of reacting to it by becoming negative too, thinking he’s being empathetic, he stood his ground.
He stayed positive, like a huge and grounded pillar.
And the way she responded was with something she had never done before…
…she asked him for advice!
Now, when a girl asks you for advice, it’s a clear sign that she trusts you.
And of course, a girl cannot trust you if you don’t trust yourself — so this is what we do inside Raw Authenticity.
We create a space within ourselves so that we feel safe, and when we feel safe and grounded, we can give this space to someone else.
It’s a gift, which a feminine girl craves, especially today when many guys are ashamed his true masculine gift (I’m still working on integrating this too).
So while most dating advice out there is about saying or doing something to get something from the girl, which has you forcing yourself to approach girls and even when you do it’s from a needy place of getting something
we do the opposite.
Giving yourself that safety and then extending it to her.
It’s no wonder that this same student had an instant date this weekend on the train station after he left his family to go back home to his city.
We combine integrating your childhood wounds (which are the cause of your fear of rejection) with your dating life so that you can approach any girl without forcing it.
But rather out of excitement,
so that she becomes excited about you too!
There is a spot open, so if you want to join us on our next call, then reply to this E-mail.
All the best,
Edin