Have s3x with a girl you're very attracted to

Hey man,

just came out of a call with a student and there were mindset shift after mindset shift.

The biggest one, was towards the end of the call.

I asked him what his final goal looks like, so exactly the moment he tells me

“Alright, Edin, thank you so much for the journey. I’m exactly where I want to be now.”

He said:

It would be to be able to being open, authentic and at ease while having sex with a girl I’m very attracted to.

Ok, I said - what is the step you will be at before you reach this one?

Being at ease talking with girls I’m attracted to without any shame and guilt. Therefore accepting this part of myself.

And we continued all the day until the current step.

5 steps in total

He left the call feeling inspired, motivated and hopeful. Because he could see the next step, the full journey didn’t overwhelm him.

Now, it’s your turn:

1. What is your final goal with your dating life?

2. Great, now what is the step you would need to reach before you get to this?

3. Good, and the step before that?

4. Keep going, what is the step before this?

5. And now?

6. You are at the present moment - if not, continue until you are.

Pro tip:
Visualize yourself already being at each step before answering the next question. This primes your brain for success, and you already get a little hint of what’s possible.

That’s it from me today.

See you tomorrow,

Edin