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- From 6 rejections...to a date
From 6 rejections...to a date
(without self-attack)
Hey man,
Today I approached 8 girls.
✅ One came on an instant-date (she even came home with me — no sex though).
✅ Another gave me her number and we’ve got a date tomorrow.
But let me tell you — the first 6?
Rejected me.
One was married. One was too young.
The others… just said no, thank you and walked away.
And yeah, after all these years — that still sucks.
But this time was different.
I didn’t spiral.
I didn’t self-attack.
I didn’t walk away like I’d just committed a crime.
I actually felt… proud.
Grounded.
Clear.
It’s because I’ve trained something most guys never even think about:
An Internal Wingman.
That part of me that has my back — especially when things don’t go my way.
So now when I see a girl, I don’t force it.
I just ask: “What do I want right now?”
And if I feel fear? That’s okay.
But most of the time… I act anyway.
And rejection?
Doesn’t mess me up anymore.
That’s the power of Raw Authenticity.
Most guys memorize tactics or chase confidence highs.
But when rejection hits — they crash.
This is why I reopened my 1-on-1 coaching.
Not for men who want shortcuts.
But for those who want to:
Integrate their own Internal Wingman
Approach women with calm, grounded confidence
Feel safe in themselves — with or without her
If you’re done playing it safe…
And ready to actually live this work—
Book a call here:
Not for maybes.
Only if you’re ready.
See you there,
Edin