Debunking the myth that

Hey man,

so I just got out of a weekly 1:1 call with my student and he expressed a huge win as a failure.

He had cold approached a girl and took her out on a 90 minute instant date.

He was present, charismatic and enjoyed himself.

Then in the end, he even pulled the trigger.

All good right?

Yeah, but she thanked him no and said she wanted to go home to sleep.

Now there could be many reasons why she wanted to sleep

• She had to get up early and wanted to prioritize it

• Before going out she decided she was not going to sleep with anyone so she wore ugly grandma underwear (yeah, girls do this)

• She still has feelings for her ex or is dating someone and doesn’t want to ruin it by having sex with someone else

But instead, what do you you think he thought it was?

We’ve both been there, so I’m sure you know what it is

Yep that

“I’m not good enough”

It’s sad, but the truth is that it’s holding you back from being happy, right now.

You’re a guy who wants the best for yourself so you do the work.

You’re disciplined.

You care about others.

And you even do uncomfortable stuff like approaching girls and reading books because it will make you smarter.

But despite all that, you tell yourself that you’re not good enough.

See, I understand that you want to feel happy and that if you got this girl you would be happy.

This might be the case, but a big breakthrough comes when you realize that you cannot control these things.

You can be the best pick up artist, but if the girl you’re hitting on is is married and her UFC fighter husband is just around the corner then likely nothing will happen between you.

And maybe she was the only girl you saw that day which you were interested in.

So you didn’t get laid, which was your goal, so you didn’t win.

So does it mean that you’re not good enough, or can you admit that you cannot control everything?

Now, there is something you can control - your will.

You can have the will to go out and get laid or become better at it, which is likely going to get you out of the house and into an interaction.

Then on a date.

Then to the bedroom

and so on.

When this becomes your focus, something inside you changes.

It’s called Outcome independence.

Life becomes more fun, because imagine how present you would be in the interaction with an attractive girl if you felt fine no matter how it went.

This also bring a level of freedom to you, so now it becomes a little easier to say and do what you really want.

And the bonus…

People gravitate towards you.

I think it’s because of the high vibration you’re in, which likely is the one of authenticity.

Just remember the last time you did something which might have felt a bit silly, but you felt like it and then noticed how people were attracted to you.

This can become something that happens to you on a daily basis, and I can help you.

I’ve helped myself and currently teaching 4 guys just like you inside Raw Authenticity.

It’s not only about dating, but about the spiritual journey of self-discovery.

Interested? Either reply to me here or book a call directly where we sit down and if we are aligned we get you started asap.

Take care,

Edin