Cute girl + hesitation = the past

Hey man,

and yes, you can overcome hesitation with the “Hug a tree” technique.

So you don’t end up going home with regret for not approaching, or for not having pulled the trigger when you could’ve asked for her number.

It’s actually quite simple, but from my experience most guys never figure this out and that’s why they’re missing out on opportunities.

I’ve seen some guys go for years without getting any real results, spending years trying to figure it out by himself and thinking it will someday just magically happen.

And I do understand, as men, we can have a big ego (I do), and want to become the best without any help.

But why would you?

Why do you think people like Cristiano Ronaldo has a coach that helps him with his fitness or mental game?

Because he understands that his time is limited, and if he wants to become the best possible he needs to utilize other peoples experience.

and that’s why he’s Cristiano Ronaldo, while other people stay stuck not approaching a girl, not going on dates, and staying single for years.

But not you, because you’re here.

And you’re going to learn how to overcome the first big step in doing just that, which is the hesitation.

Just like Theodore, a previous student of mine who didn’t have any experience with girls, was afraid to show his desire, and after 6 weeks he went on dates with girls he slept with on the first date.

And by week 7 he found a girl he wanted to see again and again

she became what he described as his soulmate.

First, what is hesitation?

From the dictionary: The action of pausing before saying or doing something

So, why are you pausing?

Likely because you’re trying to the right thing, and avoid doing the wrong thing.

That’s completely fine, and normal, but from my experience most guys are trying to do the right thing because they are afraid of being perceived as weird or as a creep by other people.

Especially by girls.

Especially attractive girls

And that’s why you end up doing nothing.

So here’s where the “Hug a tree” technique comes in.

I’m all about meditation, being grounded and present in the moment. It feels great and girls are attracted to it like a magnet.

So one day I was out, and I saw this tree.

Big, thick and I want to hug it (don’t get any wrong ideas here lol)

Anyways, that’s when I think that other people might think I’m weird

and because I’ve been through this mental game for a while, I know it’s a limiting belief so I go ahead and do it.

A minute later, I not only feel great because of the grounding of hugging the tree, but also high on having overcome the fear of being rejected by other people.

So much so, that when I see a girl, I’m able to say and do what I want without needing anything from her.

The result?

She loves it - because only guys who are “high on the social status ladder” can say and do what they want because they are not afraid of being rejected.

So it’s a hack.

This doesn’t mean you need to hug a tree, but find your own thing.

Something that both challenges yourself in social situation and also gives you a feeling of presence.

Enjoy yourself, because once you find your thing…it becomes like a superpower.

Edin